There are many times that I set my mind to something and I work hard towards that goal and I just fall short. That typically results in tears and frustration and some yelling. Then something amazing happens. Once I calm down I can usually figure out what I did wrong. I can figure out how to fix it. And finally, FINALLY, I can reach that goal. I can reach that goal because once I understand all of the equations that don’t end in my intended result I now know what equation gets me there. And I’ve gained so much along the way. Be it new experiences, new relationships or a better understanding of myself, flaws and all.